22nd September 2025

Friends And Enemies

If it is possible, as much as depends on you,

live peaceably with all men.

Romans 12:18  

Today's Bible Reading: Romans 12:17–21.

It may seem odd that Paul tells his readers to “do what is right in the sight of all men” (v 17), especially since “everyone” includes unbelievers (v 14 & 20). Paul is drawing from the teachings of Jesus, challenging us to treat all people well, regardless of how they treat us (Matthew 5:39 & 44).

But that involves having “regard” or being “careful,” as Paul puts it (v 17)—considering our actions carefully so as not to jeopardise the integrity and beauty of the gospel. Throughout his letters, Paul asks believers in Jesus to live well before the unbelieving world so that, in doing so, the changed lives of His followers can bear witness to His worthiness (1 Timothy 3:7).

It may feel unnatural to repay evil with kindness, but in doing so we follow in the footsteps of Jesus Himself, who gave Himself in our place while we were still his enemies (Romans 5:8).

To live in peace with everyone may not always be possible (after all, Paul does say “if”). But our responsibility as believers in Jesus Christ is to allow His wisdom to guide our living (James 3:17-18) so that we engage those around us as peacemakers (Matthew 5:9). What better way could there be to honour the Prince of Peace?

Prayer:  Loving Father, I was Your enemy, and You called me friend. Enable me to be a peacemaker so I can show that same grace to others. In the name of the Prince of Peace, I ask. Amen.