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3rd July 2024

The Upside Of Sorrow



Sorrow is better than laughter,

for by a sad countenance the heart is made better.


Ecclesiastes 7:3


Sorrow can be good for the soul. It can uncover hidden depths in ourselves and in God. 

Sorrow causes us to think earnestly about ourselves. It makes us ponder our motives, our intentions, our interests. We get to know ourselves as never before. 

Sorrow also helps us to see God as we have never seen Him. Job said, out of his terrible grief, “I have heard of You by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees You” (Job 42:5). The Lord Jesus, the perfect man, is described as “a man of sorrows,” intimately acquainted with grief (Isaiah 53:3). It is hard to fathom, but even the incarnate Son of God learned and grew through the heartaches He suffered (Hebrews 5:8). As we think about His sorrow and His concern for our sorrow, we gain a better appreciation for what God is trying to accomplish in us through the grief we bear. 


The author of Ecclesiastes wrote, “Sorrow is better than laughter, for by a sad countenance the heart is made better” (7:3). Those who do not let sorrow do its work, who deny it, trivialise it, or try to explain it away, remain shallow and indifferent. They never understand themselves or others very well. In fact, I think that before God can use us very much, we must first learn to mourn, in order to be able to have empathy with and for those in sorrow.


Bible Reading

Ecclesiastes 7:1-14.


Prayer

My Loving God, Thank You, that You gave the Tear as well as the smile. Amen.


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